Coming To Terms

By Raphael Awen

There’s no time like the present to come to terms with what you really want and what you don’t want. 

Coming to terms is about deeply feeling what parts of you need, what they are in reaction to, what they want to be done with and what they want to know and feel as an alternative new arising reality. 

Until you choose to inhabit more of your Divine Self embodiment, the one who can differentiate from these parts of you, get to know and feel them, there isn’t any transactional/relational space inside of you for a shift to occur. Shifts occur as things are felt, digested, and moved. Movements occur ‘to and from’ and that takes two. 

All the life dramas occurring in your life and in the collective, when embraced with curiosity and an open heart, all make for portal entry points into this relationship with yourself where deep shifts and changes can occur.

We can’t say yes to something without saying no to something else, and vice versa. We as souls chose this ground of dualistic choice in which to grow. We’re only done with this kind of duality when we actually are. 

No amount of playing smaller than we are and then caretaking one another in codependent relationships can actually snuff out the ache of our soul to truly grow and embody what we came here to embody. 

It’s not about not having a part of you that isn’t in fear of this kind of growth, or transcending your fears, but rather about getting to know the hesitant parts and why they feel hesitant. Now, self discipline isn’t needed in the way parts of us have used it to try to force growth that feels pushed and makes the self bad in some way. 

Growth and change can now happen effortlessly, naturally and with grace as your spring loaded essence does what it’s programmed to do. 

What choices are before you now? What parts of you do they relate to? Would you make space to bridge to these parts of you, hold space for them and actually cultivate a deeply meaningful relationship with them – a kind of pearl of great price, a heaven on earth? 

As you resonate into these new places, community naturally reshapes itself in your life. Your energy is shifting and so will the company you keep. Your spirituality will also naturally shift, along with your livelihood, your surroundings. All of it shifts as you align into your essence. Compartmented rooms of suffering, fear and anxiety merge into the true abundant supply of who and what you really are. 

If going deeper into this with some personal help and connection draws you, I offer a free consultation over Zoom to assist you into checking out if ongoing sessions is a fit. More here:

Raphael Awen is co-creator, teacher, and facilitator of the SoulFullHeart Way Of Life.  Visit for more information about sessions, events, videos, etc. 

Photo by Kunal Shinde on Unsplash

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