Ending The Push-Pull Within and With Others

By Jelelle Awen

This push and pull, this ‘tug of war’…..You can wear out your hands and hearts engaging this way with each other. This energy puts you on one side and them on the other. This energy creates division lines and walled-up fortresses. It creates stances and lock downs. It can only be ‘against’ rather than ‘with’.

Moving into a ‘with’ in relationships of all kinds brings you into love together rather than polarizing against each other with unfelt and undigested fear.

This can only happen on the outside, with other people…..as it is happening on the INside within you. Where there is a tug of war from one part of you to another…your Inner Punisher and your Inner Teenager (for example) or your Inner Protector and your Inner Mother/Father…..so, it will manifest on the outside.

How can you be different in a relationship with someone else than you have been in relationship with parts of yourself? Where would this new and spacious and healthy way of relating with others come from if it is struggling to happen inside of you? Why would others draw a healthier way of relating from you…..if the putting down, self punishing, guarding, suppressing energies are occurring from one part of you to another?

INside is where the empowerment is. INside is where the ambassadorship of offering love to ALL parts of you has the most traction and can go in the deepest. INside is where the gifts of your empathy, your healing, your compassion can be received the most fully.

AS that ambassadorship happens deeply, offering love to ALL parts of yourself, so then, it overflows outwards and DRAWS those who can resonate with these frequencies as well. Their self love resonance overflows to mingle and mix with yours. And if it doesn’t, then transaction just doesn’t happen.

This self love overflowing then is where healthy relating can swim. This becomes less co-dependence based on parts grabbing and pushing on each other and is more interdependence….two healthy ‘I’s’ dancing to the music of their healing hearts and souls.

More about parts/Metasoul process in my Deepen 33 Day video series going on NOW until February 2nd…here is the playlist to watch the videos so far:

 

Jelelle Awen
Soulfullheartwayoflife.com/sessions

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Jelelle Awen

I am a long-time healer, teacher, student, and facilitator of souls and hearts. My awakening journey really began in my early 30's in 2004 when I started a process to connect with and integrate parts of myself from this life and other lifetimes/timelines as well. I have been engaged with and offering 'parts process' work ever since then! I also awakened over the years to my multidimensional spiritual gifts, capacity to be a bridge to the Divine Feminine especially, and intuitive empathic abilities to 'feel' the emotional body and soul field. I offer 1:1 sessions with me remotely over zoom and in person in Victoria, BC, Canada.......Bridging and ongoing sessions are for $55 USD/$75 CAN minimum donation for a very full 75-90 minutes of empowerment and collaboration. I've met with hundreds of women around the world over the last two years especially, mostly over zoom, yet some in person too. I am available for in person sessions in the Victoria, BC, area at my home as well. These sessions offer a digestion of your awakening journey, identification of pain points/choices toward your highest timeline, intro to parts/Metasoul reality, etc. I also offer ongoing individual and group sessions once a times month over zoom, called the Deep process. You can read more about sessions here: http://www.soulfullheartwayoflife.com/sessions You can contact me on facebook via PM or email at soulfullhearts@gmail.com if you have questions about the sessions and to schedule. I am also a writer, Soul Scribe and author of four books: Bliss Mess: The Wonders And Challenges Of Ascension; Sacred Human, Arising Wonder: Ascension Through Integration of Your Emotional Body With Your Spirituality; Under The Bloated Banyan; And Keep Waking Up!: Awakening Journeys To Avalon And Beyond (all are available now as PDF, ebook, and print editions at soulfullheartwayoflife.com/books. My writings can be found on soulfullheartblog.com and audio blogs on Higher Self Youtube Channel. Here is more of my story and about me: http://www.soulfullheartwayoflife.com/about-jelelle-awen Please visit the SoulFullHeart website at soulfullheartwayoflife.com for more information about our sessions, events, and writings. The SoulFullHeart facebook page offers all postings by SoulFullHeart facilitators: https://www.facebook.com/soulfullheartwayoflife/?pnref=lhc Please go here to watch videos of teachings, guided meditations including my recent video series called Deepen, and audio blogs on the SoulFullHeart Experience Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxXnpEWc6EN1IAJtd8D_k5Q Testimonials sharing session experiences are here: soulfullheartwayoflife.com/testimonials

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