Entering my twenties I learned that there was some odd man code that included a figurative card that apparently could be taken away from me at a moment’s notice by the random judgement of another ´man´ based on said code. While joking in manner to some degree, it held a lot of information about what constitutes masculinity within the collective consciousness. This is a very 3D memory but it feels important to recall as it had an effect on a part of me growing up aching for what true masculinity was about. The impetus behind this phenomenon feels rooted in the deep need for the wounded boy to be accepted by a father who couldn’t accept or love himself in a way that would transact real love in between him and his son. To be shown the doorway to his authentic masculine heart.
How much of this affects the way we hold our spirituality and our relationship to the feminine? Both of which are inextricably entwined. In what ways are we not accessing the fullest bandwidth of our expression as sacred human males? To that I can only answer we burn the card at the gateway of our vulnerability and walk through it with the open question of what our most authentic manhood looks and feels like. What old memes and programs still exist in us that hold court over our truth and emotions? In what ways are we holding back or fearing the change that is ready to take us to new levels of empowerment and relationship?
All these answers lie inside the relationship to our deepest fears and pains. Instead of being held and controlled by them, we hold that we are bigger than them in a compassionate way that doesn’t look to railroad over them or fix them, but to own and love them. This is a difficult yet rewarding place to go as it frees up all the energy that stuck inside this exceptional male body in all its forms.
What can begin to arise is a new Man code with a new card that is in service of the Love that has been let in in the letting go. The card now states that there is no revocability by no one other than the card holder. It stays in good standing for as long as one has an open heart and can bring all their truth in any way that holds it may not be right, but it is never wrong in its realness. That with the strength of courage and willingness to feel it will always be valid among the sacredness of brotherhood. This new card is a reminder of what once was and is now on its way to BEcoming. I look forward to connecting with those that are seeking an emergence of the new and what that may offer both of us in our journey of ascension.
Gabriel Heartman is an emoto-spiritual teacher, men’s facilitator, energy healer, writer, poet, and heartist with the SoulFullHeart Way of Life. Visit https://www.soulfullheartwayoflife.com for more information about space holding sessions, group calls, videos, community, etc.
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