Our intimate relationships are sacred grounds of getting to feel and see ourselves. We GET to experience what is rumbling inside of us that has been kept at bay in our subconscious. These parts of us that have been living is a safety zone of incognito through the protection of our comfortability. When our deepest desires begin to ring out into the cosmos, the mechanics of manifestation begin to offer their services. But when they do, it is meant to bring up what is needed in order to let in what is wanted.
We aren’t completely aware of what lies in the space between what we feel consciously and what is in our unfelt wounding until we enter the arena of conscious relationship. In unconscious unions, there are many reactions and emotions that are left untouched and unexpressed in our part’s desire to maintain image and safety. These are sacred unions in there own right as they are meant to serve us into a new dimension of relationality when we have chosen that other sacred journey of growth and deepening.
These conscious relationships will manifest in ways that may or may not come in the ways or forms parts of us may have expected. They come to us to help elucidate the woundings and projections that are still residing inside of us that, when held in conscious relationship inside of us through parts work, can bring us to new depths of both inner and other intimacy. However, there can be a LOT to feel and integrate along the way. There can be a tendency for parts to exit, to go back to what was more comfortable to them before. This is a point where, if true growth, self-love, and intimacy are the ultimate desire, we hold these parts within us and feel what the fear is truly about. What experiences in this or another life are contributing to the need for retraction? These can be difficult yet necessary to feel if we are to continue on our way to more authentic, conscious, and intimate transactibility. The way to Love!
Our vulnerable truth in any moment is our guide in this dance. There is no guarantee we won’t step on our partners toes and cause some pain. We aren’t meant to be perfect or “right” in the way we reveal ourselves. In these moments, we cross bridges previously left uncrossed to change the timelines of the old and create something new. It may not be pleasurable, yet it could lead to something more pleasurable than what parts of us were expecting or ironically afraid of in the first place. For if the bond deepens and rises, what more is there to experience and how far might we fall as it keeps going? This is what is really at stake for these parts of us. Being left with the pain of being hurt once again. Yet with a true sense of an authentic, centered self, we are big enough to feel and hold our way through the process.
Conscious romance is the next frontier for our evolution as a species. Both inner and outer. It starts inside of us first and extends outward. It is why we are here in many ways. To explore this deepening and expanding that can create a new world of possibility, creativity, and aliveness. Whatever happens in the process you can be guaranteed that you will experience and discover more about You and what it is you really want from Life and Love.
We will be teaching more about sacred union, offering a guided meditation, plus space for individual sharings during a Sacred Union Group call this Sunday at 11:11am CST if you would like to join us for a $11 min. donation:www.facebook.com/events/275463096260878. If you can’t join us live, we’ll be sharing a recording of the teachings and meditations here on FB.
Gabriel Heartman is an emoto-spiritual teacher, men’s facilitator, energy healer, writer, poet, and heartist with the SoulFullHeart Way of Life. Visit https://www.soulfullheartwayoflife.com for more information about space holding sessions, group calls, videos, community, etc.
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