Our Greatest Strength Lies In The Gentleness Of Our Heart

By Jelelle Awen

Someone thanked me recently on one of my energy updates for my “gentle explanations that are so helpful.” What was most touching about that for me was their use of the word, ‘gentle’. I will take ‘gentle’ over ‘accurate’ or ‘convincing’ any day. Gentle allows for the message to be received as an invitation rather than seemingly force fed onto anyone as an assertion. Gentle allows for personal resonance that comes from a place of sovereignty and empowerment. No one is bowled over with gentle….or disrespected or made to feel bad or wrong.

It has actually taken MUCH personal work for me (and parts of me) to be more gentle in my energy. To allow feminine energies of kindness and compassion to sooth wounded masculine frequencies that didn’t remember how to BE this way. These masculine aspects in me (and in the collective) only knew how to be forceful, how to fight, how to be a warrior.

It has taken much personal process to be gentle with my truths and insights. For parts of me to not judge myself so harshly that self consciousness keeps me from sharing my truth at all. For parts of me to shift from this intense self judging into loving discernment, heart-based and soul-based wisdoms that can be offered WHILE being open to alternative viewpoints and others realities. It has taken much inner process with parts of myself to offer my wisdoms that come from my own experiences without being contentious toward others.

Are you being contentious or are you being invitational? This is the question that I’ve been asking myself and parts of me for years now. Parts of me definitely had phases of being more contentious, of being just plain ANGRY…..especially when injustice was perceived or experienced. As these parts healed and relaxed and rested into compassion, then could they let go of the contention as it was just rooted ultimately in unworthiness, in shame, in distrust. They could let this go as they let go into love with ME (the Higher Self Me, the embodiment of Divine Feminine Me).

To be gentle is so undervalued in our 3D culture. To be gentle is the healing feminine in us all. The embodiment of the Divine Feminine’s gentleness that comes from a deep well of compassion for Herself, for others…..for YOU.

What place does gentleness have in your life and in your heart space? Are you gentle with yourself? Do you feel parts of you (especially what we call in SoulFullHeart The Inner Punisher) that are harsh and contentious with you? Do you feel gentleness toward others or do parts of you tend to get more charged and outraged?

To BEcome gentle requires trust that this softer frequency will be enough. To realize that gentleness actually HAS tremendous power in it. The power comes from being based in the openness and willingness to be vulnerable; to be seen; to be heard even with soft voice or soft heart leading.

I ache for our world to become more gentle….and I lead with this frequency in whatever ways I can. And I invite you too as well, as I feel the Divine Feminine inviting us ALL into Her gentle heart to receive Her modeling and to facilitate our own remembering.



Jelelle Awen is Co-creator/Facilitator/Teacher of the SoulFullHeart Way Of Life. She is a Soul Scribe and author of three books about Ascension. Visit soulfullheartwayoflife.com for more information about space holding sessions, group calls, videos, etc. Visit our patreon page to offer a monthly or one time money donation to support our offerings athttps://www.patreon.com/soulfullheart.



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Jelelle Awen

I am a long-time healer, teacher, student, and facilitator of souls and hearts. My awakening journey really began in my early 30's in 2004 when I started a process to connect with and integrate parts of myself from this life and other lifetimes/timelines as well. I have been engaged with and offering 'parts process' work ever since then! I also awakened over the years to my multidimensional spiritual gifts, capacity to be a bridge to the Divine Feminine especially, and intuitive empathic abilities to 'feel' the emotional body and soul field. I offer 1:1 sessions with me remotely over zoom and in person in Victoria, BC, Canada.......Bridging and ongoing sessions are for $55 USD/$75 CAN minimum donation for a very full 75-90 minutes of empowerment and collaboration. I've met with hundreds of women around the world over the last two years especially, mostly over zoom, yet some in person too. I am available for in person sessions in the Victoria, BC, area at my home as well. These sessions offer a digestion of your awakening journey, identification of pain points/choices toward your highest timeline, intro to parts/Metasoul reality, etc. I also offer ongoing individual and group sessions once a times month over zoom, called the Deep process. You can read more about sessions here: http://www.soulfullheartwayoflife.com/sessions You can contact me on facebook via PM or email at soulfullhearts@gmail.com if you have questions about the sessions and to schedule. I am also a writer, Soul Scribe and author of four books: Bliss Mess: The Wonders And Challenges Of Ascension; Sacred Human, Arising Wonder: Ascension Through Integration of Your Emotional Body With Your Spirituality; Under The Bloated Banyan; And Keep Waking Up!: Awakening Journeys To Avalon And Beyond (all are available now as PDF, ebook, and print editions at soulfullheartwayoflife.com/books. My writings can be found on soulfullheartblog.com and audio blogs on Higher Self Youtube Channel. Here is more of my story and about me: http://www.soulfullheartwayoflife.com/about-jelelle-awen Please visit the SoulFullHeart website at soulfullheartwayoflife.com for more information about our sessions, events, and writings. The SoulFullHeart facebook page offers all postings by SoulFullHeart facilitators: https://www.facebook.com/soulfullheartwayoflife/?pnref=lhc Please go here to watch videos of teachings, guided meditations including my recent video series called Deepen, and audio blogs on the SoulFullHeart Experience Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxXnpEWc6EN1IAJtd8D_k5Q Testimonials sharing session experiences are here: soulfullheartwayoflife.com/testimonials

One thought on “Our Greatest Strength Lies In The Gentleness Of Our Heart”

  1. Really good article, Jelelle! I wrote a similar one awhile ago. Last week I opened a new facebook group to address these same issues. I am calling it, “RAINBOW HEART WARRIORS ~ THE WHIRLING RAINBOWS OF BIPOLARITY”. I am so grateful for our continued synchronicities. They keep me inspired to keep on keeping on. Sharing our Blessings of ONENESS. ~Joie (J’aelle)

    On Thu, Mar 1, 2018 at 4:45 PM, SoulFullHeart Way Of Life wrote:

    > Jelelle Awen posted: “By Jelelle Awen Someone thanked me recently on one > of my energy updates for my “gentle explanations that are so helpful.” What > was most touching about that for me was their use of the word, ‘gentle’. I > will take ‘gentle’ over ‘accurate’ or ‘con” >

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