Energy Update: Completing Karmic Binds/Codependency In Relationships

By Jelelle Awen

In pre-8/8 Lion’s Gateway window, supportive energies are coming in to illuminate dynamics within and with others that may be sticky, suffering, karmic, dark and off the radar in some ways. Your sense of being ‘done’ with certain energies and patterns in your relationships may be peaking and coming in with clarity for you now.

Karmic binds are particularly being highlighted and strained right now….what no longer serves your awakening soul is just not having an appeal anymore. What has been looping for many lifetimes is running out of ‘gas’. Parts of you may still be tied in through habit, routine, money/financial binds, codependence, vows (from other lifetimes) etc. That is where connecting with the part of you directly that is tied in and WHY they are can be a deep negotiation ground allowing for setting boundaries and/or taking space/completion that serves BOTH of you.

An interesting piece seems to be a misplaced loyalty to some of these 3D anchored souls that were ‘there for you’ when the dark nights came in, when the soul aspects/timelines were bleeding through, and they ‘helped’ in their own way. Often this help comes in the from of judging you, being ‘worried about you, wanting you to go get help that doesn’t align with your soul, etc.

There can be gratitude for what they provided that was probably a soul agreement anyway between you. Yet, to stay in relationship now and ongoingly, CAN be a shrink for you if you are needed to hide yourself, your spirituality, your light, your truth, your bigness….ANY aspects of yourself in order to keep them feeling comfortable with you.

Feeling gratitude and yet not being bound by the past fragilities and arising now into your strength, your truth, AND your side of the agreement to actually let them go. This is an interesting piece of it too….3D anchored souls NEED to choose on their own soul awakening during this bifurcation and Ascension process. Not under your influence, yet only by your inspired leadership that also can let them go and unattach so they can make their own choices now….as you make yours. This is actually a mercy to them as it is to you.

The emotional maturity it takes to navigate this way comes from feeling parts of you like your Inner Teenager who can grab and cling; or push away/ghost; be passive aggressive and withhold from the person your truth. Withholding ALWAYS leads to more hurt feelings, rather than sparing anyone anything…it is a backed up energy that just gets more charged within and over time.

The soul maturity it takes to navigate in this conscious way in relationship comes from the ongoing unplugging from the control Matrix/reincarnation grids and veils of amnesia that have kept us in these cycles with soul family members for so many lifetimes. Ancestral line healing, connecting with soul aspects directly, and working with your Gatekeeper allows for the soul field to open up and clear/dissolve/process these binds and unhook from them.

So much energy can be freed up from no longer going into this hiding with yourself and others…it takes a lot more energy to hide and withhold as you are ‘going against’ the current of Ascension that wants to bring humanity into pure and true transparency in ALL areas.

Now is a time to complete cycles that no longer serve your arising bigness. Now is a time to be honest, transparent, open and current inside yourself and with others. Now is a time to risk being judged and rejected by others in order to experience a deeper resonance and connection with soul family, soul mates and with the Divine.

ALL the courage you need to navigate this way is within your soul field, within even these parts of you that have been stuck in immaturity out of undigested wounding. You become it as you transact within you and with others.

Love to you as we ride this relational upgrades together,

Jelelle

If you’d like support for navigating your relationships within yourself and with others in a conscious way, more info about 1:1 sessions with me and Kasha with women and for men with Raphael at soulfullheart.org/sessions

Also, we have two group calls coming up this weekend, an inner teenager/boy group call for men on Saturday and an inner teenager/girl group for women that you can join by donation with more info at soulfullheart.org/events

Pics are of unique rainbow auroras in Finland….AS unique as you are in all your Divine Self arising….

Practical Ascension Vlog Series: Social Area Of Life Introduction

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vsxJk_oqMbM&feature=youtu.be

SoulFullHeart Teachers, Facilitators and Sacred Union mates, Gabriel Heartman and Kalayna Colibri, offer a new perspective and lens for the social area of life. This is the first video of several where they will be exploring this topic through the SoulFullHeart lens and their personal experiences of Ascension and deep healing in this area.

In this video, they give an overview of social reality from a 3D/4D/5D perspective and they touch on topics such as: relationships based in duty and obligation or β€˜binds’ instead of heart and soul β€˜bonds’; the process of awakening and the impact on relationships plus the need to be willing to let go of relationships that aren’t awakening with you; the impact of leaving relationships and the grace it offers to all parties involved; the overall benefit to you and your parts as you let in more self love and Divine love while letting go of non-resonant relationships… among so many others, which is really just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to this area, that runs so deep and is such a potent source of wounding and healing, both.

If you have any questions or comments, you can leave them in the comment thread here on Youtube or find us on Facebook (just look for Kalayna Colibri and/or Gabriel Heartman and/or SoulFullHeart Way Of Life!). You can also email soulfullhearts@gmail.com.

These are the questions for this area of life that you can go into on your own, as they appear in the 3D/4D/5D Selves and The 7 Key Areas Of Life article (http://www.soulfullheartwayoflife.com…):

How did you locate yourself related to the social area of life – as primarily a 3D, 4D or 5D consciousness and why?

What are your frustrations in the social area?

What are your desires in the social area?

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Gabriel Heartman is an emoto-spiritual men’s and women’s facilitator, energy healer, writer, poet, and heartist with the SoulFullHeart Way of Life.

Kalayna Colibri is a SoulFullHeart facilitator for women around (and under) the age of 30, energy healer, indigo-crystal bridge, soul scribe, and poetess.Β Β 

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